Choices and Voices of Children : 100 Ways To Be a Conscious Parent

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Whether you are an enthusiastic couple, a would-be parent, a single parent, a grandparent, a counsellor, a teacher, a trainer or one who deals with children around them all the time; this book will change your perspective towards children and open all the secrets to Conscious Parenting.

Parenting Journeys begin with the idea of starting a family, pursuing the idea and bringing a child into your world or adopting, or even having a surrogacy to conceive and impregnate, followed by raising infants into toddlers, progressing into young kids and teenagers, finally sending them off on their way into the world. You remain in their lives as a friend and a guide forever. This book addresses all these stages of Parenting.

Are you confused and always questioning your parenting techniques Old school v/s the new?

Are you trying to give the best of both worlds to your child?

Do you wish to imbibe virtues and train the child in a pragmatic manner?

And in the process are you burning out?

Are you constantly trying to be the Best Parent, Best Coach, Best in Everything?

And, is it working for you?

Are you trying to raise your child in the present, from the rules of the past to live an independent life in the future?

time to enter into a communion with your child?

Is it This book equips you with practical tools to shift your mindset away from the traditional parent-to-child "know it all" approach and moves towards a mutual parent-with-child conscious relationship? It is never too late. You can begin at any age!

The dynamic yet simple ideas and techniques in this book will assist you in achieving results with your child that you had always dreamt of/wished for. Using the tools herein, will inspire you and your child to create a lasting bond and thrive in this Special Relationship. These concepts form the core of the "7 Tools to Cool Conscious Parenting' workshop and 'Conscious Parenting Master Class', where you can interact with Meheck and receive pragmatic and result- oriented solutions to the roadblocks in your parenting journey. I hope this book contributes to your journey. Happy Parenting!

Mcheck Mukherje an Author, Transformation Coach, Founder of AIKYA - The Oneness Program, Children and Relationships Counsellor. She has written two books on Conscious Parenting and a Coffee Table Book which is a compilation of Empowering Poetry and Travel Photography. She graduated as a Biomedical Engineer with a Honors Degree from the University of Mumbai. She excelled at school, college and university, be it the Arts, Literature, Sanskrit, Mathematics or Sciences as well as at Dance and the performing arts.

Meheck has come a long way in the journey of her life from being a perfectionist, extremely logical and practical person to being pragmatic and a fully aware energy worker. She was born in an affluent business family with strong value systems and an orthodox mindset. As she carved her way from the conventiona education and career path to a completely radical energetic one she had one flame burning all along; her Passion. She gave up her decade long status as a Professor in Quantitative Statistics and Research at Business Schools to choose Counselling and transforming peoples' lives. She has facilitated great transformations in single or divorced women, empowering them to pursue more choices and acknowledging themselves; teenagers and youngsters who had fallen prey to various addictions, alcohol, smoke, drugs or gaming and bringing the zest for real life back in them, bringing them abreast with more possibilities and multiple career options; special children - autistic, ADHD, ADD, OCD, being the catalyst in making their parents and them aware of their special potencies and facilitating them to create lives beyond what they could imagine; individuals who have given up on life and are depressed, motivating them and facilitating them to transform their personal, professional, mental and physical health.

Meheck has one ask: To be able to touch numerous lives: Spread Consciousness in the world. This book is an attempt to work at the roots and empower the future generations and bring more consciousness on the planet.

The tiny beings in little bodies call out each day for HELP as they go about beginning their journey in this world. Gifting the next generation, a sound emotional, mental, and physical health leads to emotionally balanced human beings in society. This work is an attempt to give back to society everything I know about parenting to build a better tomorrow.

'Choices and Voices of Children' brings out every aspect of parenting right from prebirth till the age the children go off on their own. It empowers parents to make choices that would aid their children to be fearless and emotionally and mentally strong individuals who can take on powerful roles in society.

Fearless not from the space of powerful, controlling and in command. But fearless from the space of not fearing anything. Being filled with inner love and knowing, trusting self and effortlessly cruising life - riding the red bull with love and joy. It inculcates a parenting technique which is effortless, natural and mindless. You do not have to stress or use your mind at all. You just flow naturally with it once you have the basic rules of the game.

The child gives birth to the Mother.

And so did my son give birth to me, a bright young lady, pretty, smart, educated, fun-loving, responsible and doting mother awaiting her firstborn's arrival, sees her bundle of joy and at first sight does not like the sight of it... It looked like a little monkey to me. Having heard stories of and seen numerous beautiful babies, the beauty of the process of childbirth; there were expectations that my child will look and be a certain way. That abolished in the first few moments, there began a list of suggestions and instructions, to dos and not-to-dos, experience sharing, and guidance on how to parent. Nothing went through, though. Most advice didn't align perfectly with our needs and the urge for trial and error exhausted me.

Not only for the first few day weeks and months but for the first 5 years of my child's life, the mother in me kept learning and seeking advice from experts, doctors, and many, many, many parenting books and articles but nothing really worked perfectly. The wish to be 'The Perfect Parent', kept getting the most out of me and tired me at the same time. The result - I gave up a decade long career as a Professor in Quantitatives at Business Schools to study Children Psychology and Counselling Therapy. Thus began my journey into parenting and contributing to other stumbling parents...

Driving me to contribute to more individuals and parents, my journey into the conscious parenting school of thought began with self-exploration and inner child healing workshops which led me to writing this book today. I wonder how many parents can this book empower. And I wonder how many children will be nurtured and raised into lovely conscious human beings through this book. For me, the mom I be, I am simply happy to see my son all of 17 today. A lad - so wise, caring, balanced and loving, the envy of all parents around me who now constantly ask me 'how did you do this?"

And I reply to them, Parenting is a journey my friend, not a one-time task and it begins at conception, and well before.

So here I am, pouring in between the pages of this book all of my knowing, all of my secrets of parenting and counselling Inviting you, who may be at any stage of parenting, whether you are planning a baby or you are sending your kids off to university you can read and reread this book to give you deeper insights into the world of parenting each time!